Are you enjoying your life?
I know most of yours answer is yes and no (50-50) so do I.
Happy Life doesn't come up by default when we born. (Yes at that time may be it's a happy life for our parents). Life is a most precise gift given to us and it's in our hand to make it happy or waste it.
Human being is always behind a happy life including me also ;) while running behind a happy life i came across some secrets to achieve a happy life.
Let's take a look at these secrets.
1) Start Towards A Happy Life
Start your journey towards a happy life. Your first step is very important. Even to take a cold drink from a refrigerator, you have to start from your couch.
So the day you are going to start is TODAY. Don't wait for your kids to grow up, Don't wait for time to change, Don't wait for sunrise, Don't wait for weather, this the right time to START to achieve what your dreams.
Life will be happy when you make your first move and achieve your first little dream.
2) Explore The Space
No One Answer Fits In Every Scenario, You Have To Constantly Explore
In life not always your past experience helps to solve your present condition. You have to constantly explore different things in order to achieve.
3) Simplicity Matters
To enjoy a happy life you have to simplify your life. Ohh I remembered, one of my friend Andy asked me one day, " My life is very simple, i woke up early in the morning (11 o'clock is early for him ;)) eat delicious breakfast, watch movies, play some video games, evening chilled with friends and late night went to bed. Still i feel life is very boring ".
I told him, my friend simplify life doesn't mean that remove work from your life. Simplify means invest your energy and time for the work you enjoy most.
Simplicity is ultimately a matter of focus
- Ann Voskamp
4) Go Minimal
The Secret Of Happiness Is Not Found In Seeking More, But In Developing The Capacity To Enjoy Less
- Steve Jobs
Most of the people i saw always complaint about their life. Always seek more which sometimes they don't deserve.
Yes i agree you have to dream big but running behind a big dream means you are actually not enjoying whatever you have with you.
So Dream Big, Enjoy What You Have and Plan To Achieve Your big dream.
5) Take Some Efforts
Of course for happy life you have to take some Efforts. Efforts means you have to do some adjustments, reevaluate your time, money you spend. To achieve certain dreams you have to take efforts.
God Gives Every Bird It's Food But He Doesn't Throw It Into It's Nest - J G Holland
6) Set Priorities
Most of my friends waste their time and money behind the works which are not very important.
You have to set the priorities in order to achieve happy life. Don't waste your time and money for the work which you are not supposed to do. Let your wife decide which dress she is going to wear for the party ;)
Most Of Us Spend To Much Time On What Is Urgent And Not Enough Time On What Is Important - Stephen Covey
7) Eliminate Distraction
Study shows that near about 75% of your mental energy can be tied up in things that are distracting you. And it's very difficult for some people to stay focus on their goal in life.
In such cases i will suggest to look around at someone's life you admire. See how they tackle such situations. Ask them how they did it? Finally It's in our hand what to store and what not in our little brain.
Winston Churchill cleverly said
You Will Never Reach Your Destination If You Stop And Throw Stones At Every Dog That Barks
So Do You Want To Add Some More Secrets ? I Am Always On The Hunt For Great Ideas.
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